What It’s Really Like to Be an Interior Designer (Hint: It’s Not Just Picking Paint Colors)

by Terrina Reiber, Deay Studio Interior Designs

People think interior design is all mood boards, espresso, and fabric samples. That we waltz into perfectly lit showrooms and declare, “Yes, this will do!” before heading to lunch.

I wish.

Most days, I’m juggling construction schedules, change orders, material delays, and at least one existential crisis about grout color.

Case in Point: The Great Tile Saga of Castle Rock

Right now, I’m working on a beautiful project here in Castle Rock — a dream client, gorgeous concept, everything on track — until we ran out of tile.

Not by a box. Not by a case. Fourteen tiles.

And not just any tiles — handmade ones from Mexico, which means no two look alike and “rush order” is not a phrase that exists.

That’s the thing about design: every choice has a ripple effect. Fourteen tiles short can mean the countertop can’t go in, which means the sink can’t be installed, which means the plumber can’t finish, which means… well, you get it.

So while I’m fielding calls, double-checking measurements, and coordinating new shipping timelines, I’m also reworking the schedule so the project doesn’t completely stall. Because that’s what designers really do — we solve the puzzle when half the pieces are missing.

Designers vs. Decorators: A Little PSA

Let me clear something up: being a designer isn’t just about choosing colors and pillows (though that’s the fun part).

A decorator makes things pretty. A designer makes things work.

We deal with architecture, function, flow, electrical plans, cabinet specs, fire codes, and the emotional health of everyone involved (including our own).

When a client says, “You’re basically running the whole project,” they’re not wrong. Because good design is equal parts creativity and coordination — beauty and building science.

The Glamour (and the Grit)

Sure, there are glamorous moments — when a reveal comes together, when a client gasps, when the light hits that backsplash just right and you think, Yes, this is it.

But there’s also the reality:

• Crawling under cabinets to check outlet placement.

• Texting contractors at 9 p.m. about grout color.

• And driving across town because one of the “perfect” tiles arrived chipped.

This work isn’t easy. But it’s meaningful. Because at the end of all the chaos, you get to hand someone their dream home — and that’s magic.

Why I Keep Doing It

Even on the longest days, when I’m covered in sawdust and coffee, I remember this: design is about people. It’s about how they live, what they love, and the spaces where their lives unfold.

So yes — being an interior designer is tough. But it’s also the best job in the world